I can forgive cheating – Stan Nze

Actor Stan Nze has opened up about his views on relationships, stressing that he can intentionally forgive a cheating partner

Speaking during an interview, the actor was asked whether love by itself is enough to keep a marriage or relationship strong. In response, he noted that the issue is more complex than a simple yes or no answer.

Stan explained that the kind of love capable of sustaining a relationship is not rooted in fleeting feelings or physical attraction. Rather, he described it as a selfless commitment built on patience, kindness, sacrifice and a willingness to forgive.

According to him, many relationships break down because people struggle to let go of hurts and mistakes, adding that forgiveness remains one of the most important ingredients for lasting partnerships.

Addressing the topic of infidelity, the actor said he believes cheating can be forgiven, although he cautioned that forgiveness should not be mistaken for accepting repeated misconduct.

He said:

“Real love is enough, am not talking about ‘butterflies in your tummy’… not that. The love that Christ preached, the one that is agape, the love in Galatians 5:23, it’s not built on flesh, it’s genuine. The one that’s selfless, the one that’s kind, forgives easily because the things that happen in marriage or relationship that don’t make it work, the fact that you cannot forgive. Love is enough if it’s the right love.

“Absolutely, I can forgive cheating, but we shall not continue in sinning that grace might be abound. So you would not be stupid but if someone offends you or does something that’s not right, that’s what it is. It is not a licence to be stupid.”, he added.