Eriata Ese advises women against revenge infidelity

Eriata Ese has spoken against retaliating with infidelity in marriages

The actress on her Instagram page, claimed that ‘revenge cheating’ does not guarantee healing

She explained that women should prioritise healing properly, improving oneself emotionally and spiritually, and choosing healthier partners in the future, rather than working o get their ‘bite back’.

“Women are being betrayed despite giving their best in marriage, and sadly, broken people are busy advising them to cheat back. Cheating back will never give you closure. The moment you do it, you return to the same painful feeling of betrayal your husband caused you. Not only that, but you also end up proving to yourself that you do not value yourself enough to heal properly. Instead, you begin expecting someone else to fill that emotional vacuum, but the truth is, they never really do. It is all temporary, and in the process, you deprive yourself of true healing. You may even continue attracting the same type of men because you never healed enough to recognize a red flag disguised as green,” she stated.

Eriata also urged women to work on improving themselves and building a strong relationship with God. She noted that if a situation cannot be fixed, its better to leave.

”Your biggest payback is becoming a version of yourself that even he cannot reach. Physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually upgrading yourself. Know God more deeply than you used to, and take your time to choose someone ordained by God; someone who will truly love, respect, understand, value, and adore you. If it cannot be fixed, let it go. Do not cheat back,” she added.