I’m leaving my husband because he beats me after drinking ― Bose Oladimeji

Nollywood actress Bose Oladimeji is ready to quit her relationship after allegedly suffering domestic abuse several times at the hands of her husband.

The couple all though not officially married, have been living together for over two years and have children together.

Speaking to Potpourri about her predicament, Bose mentioned that she had left the man’s house because of the constant beating she receives whenever he comes home drunk.

She added that she has had to run away from the house because her life was in danger as a result of all the abuse.

The actress explained that there were times when he came home drunk and would abuse her with any weapon he can place his hands on but would apologize for his actions once he becomes sober.

She said:
“Yes I’m ready to go, in fact, I’m not with him right now. I just have to run for my life, my life is very precious to me.

“I can’t just allow someone to kill me like that and I want to address some ladies out there that they should not love a guy because of what he gives them.

“They should be sure the love is genuine and not be fooled by money and comfort. I’m leaving right now, I need to run away for my life.

“I need to save myself. My life will be in danger if I continue to stay with him, so I’m leaving right now.

“Yes I’m ready to go, in fact, I’m not with him right now. I just have to run for my life, my life is very precious to me.

“I can’t just allow someone to kill me like that and I want to address some ladies out there that they should not love a guy because of what he gives them.

“They should be sure the love is genuine and not be fooled by money and comfort. I’m leaving right now, I need to run away for my life.

“I need to save myself. My life will be in danger if I continue to stay with him, so I’m leaving right now.

“Whenever he’s drunk he’s out of his senses and starts misbehaving, beating me. He acts very crazy.

“Any weapon he sees around he uses it on me but when he is sober he starts to regret whatever he has done.

“What I’m saying is that in the process of beating me what if I collapse and die or get injured, what will people say?”

When asked if there were signs that her husband was abusive when they got together, Bose revealed that he showed no signs of abuse and was a very humble, loving man in the beginning.

“We meet in the club through a friend and he was well presented and loving, humble and respectful and he spent a lot of money that night but after everything, to be honest, we went home separately.

“The following day we hooked up and that was how it all started. He was taking good care of me and that was one of the reasons I fell in love with him.
“But what I found odd about him is the forceful way he has sex with. No foreplay, nothing, just to jump on me and forces his way through.

“No affection, no cuddling, no romance just brutal sex. I was raped like this most nights, and usually followed by beating and insults,” she said.